Current code in backend_watch_callback has two issues when manipulating the
dguest list:
1. backend_watch_callback forgets to remove a libxl__ddomain_guest from the
list of tracked domains when the related data is freed, causing dereferences
later on when the list is traversed. Make sure that a domain is always removed
from the list when freed.
2. A spurious device state change can cause a dguest to be freed, with active
devices and without being removed from the list. Fix this by always checking if
a dguest has active devices before freeing and removing it.